If that creeps you out, find a private stall, room, or area. Watching – If you start getting hot and heavy in public, etiquette dictates everyone can watch.Since it is hard to tell, be extra careful and maybe avoid until you are more comfortable. Sadly, many guys head here for barebacking and to avoid using a condom. The look won’t work here, and touching is the only way to communicate. There’ll generally be an orgy of men in there, sucking, groping, and perhaps fucking. Dark Rooms – In case you want some truly anonymous sex, this is exactly where you head to.An ass squeeze suggests he desires just that. If he grabs your cock, he is searching for a top. The trick? Guys will grab the part they are interested in most. Aside from the positioning of the keys, or wrist bracelets in some gay sauna, it is hard to tell sometimes. Top or bottom? – One of the most challenging parts ofgay sauna cruising is finding out who desires to top and who wished to bottom.Plenty of guys are hypersensitive to them, and the scene will stay in the sauna long after you have finished. Fragrances – Showering is fundamental to ensure you smell good but please, do not use perfumes, strong deodorant, or even colognes during any gay bathhouse experience.
You can apply the same rule, and if someone is very persistent, clearly say ‘no thanks. If the guy shakes his head, stop all touching and don’t try again. If you are comfortable and sure you have been given ‘the look’: do not hesitate to signal the interest of yours in a similar manner. Therefore do not be offended in case a guy contacts your butt or arm or perhaps even your cock. But since your not talking, you are going to have to get used to communicating by other means.
Depending on the gay bathhouse, these can be an additional charge or included in the overall entrance fee. You’ll figure it all out pretty quick but suffice to say: a door left open can be an invitation to watch or join those inside. Private Rooms – Separable rooms with either a wipeable pad on the floor or a mattress on a bench are a mainstay of any gay bathhouse experience.And yes, guys: “No” means “no,” even in the dark. We hate this practice and don’t think it is in any way acceptable. Usually not advised for your first time gay sauna experience, but if you don’t have any preference of who you get with and are turned on by anonymity, then why not give it a try? Be careful, however, as in the dark most guys don’t use a condom as no one can see. The lights are off, and all you can see are the outlines of other guys. Dark Rooms – Anything goes in this kinky zone.Otherwise known as the ‘dry areas,’ no action is allowed in these spaces in most establishments – but follow the lead of everyone else if you’re unsure. Some have bars serving alcoholic drinks, others have dance floors with DJs or even live shows. Relaxation Lounge – Many locals head to their closest gay sauna for more than just the cruisy atmosphere.